Confession and Reconciliation – FAQ

Confession can feel scary for a lot of people. Maybe you’ve had a bad experience. Maybe you’ve been away for a long time. Or maybe you’re just not sure what to say. In our church, confession isn’t about fear or shame. It’s about healing.

Do you offer confession?

Yes. We offer the Sacrament of Reconciliation (also called confession or spiritual healing) to anyone who asks for it. You don’t have to be a member of our church. You don’t need to meet any requirements. If your heart is heavy, we’re here to help.

Do I have to confess in a booth?

No. Confession can take place in many ways—over the phone, by video, in a quiet corner of the sanctuary, or even during a walk outside. What matters is that you feel safe and heard.

Do I have to follow a script?

No. If you know the traditional prayers, you’re welcome to use them. But you don’t have to. Just speak from the heart. I’ll guide you gently if needed.

Will I be judged?

Never. This is not a place of judgment. It’s a place of honesty, grace, and starting fresh. My job is to listen, offer support, and remind you that you’re not alone.

Is confession required?

No. In our tradition, confession is available—not forced. If you feel called to it, come. If not, that’s okay. It’s here when you need it.

What happens after I confess?

I’ll offer a short prayer or reflection, and then give absolution—words of peace and forgiveness. Sometimes I may suggest something simple to help you reflect, like lighting a candle, journaling, or doing something kind for someone else.

Is what I say kept private?

Yes. Always. What you share in confession is held in complete confidence. That trust is sacred and will never be broken.

What if I’m not sure if I’m ready to confess?

Even just thinking about returning to God is a sign that grace is already working in you. Saint Augustine once said, “You would not seek Him unless He had already found you.” The very desire to come home means He is already calling you back. In the story of the Prodigal Son, the father saw his child coming from far off—because he had never stopped watching the road. God meets us with love before we even speak a word.

You don’t have to carry it alone.

Whether it’s something heavy or something small, you are welcome to bring it forward. Reconciliation is not about being perfect—it’s about being honest, being heard, and being met with mercy.